Family

It is my opinion that there is no greater example of God’s love in action, in this life, than the outworkings of a Godly family. It has been said that the earthly family unit is a microcosm of His love in action for us to enjoy, here on earth, before we enjoy the real thing in Heaven. I like that thought.

Of course, there are many examples of the family unit in crisis. We only have to read the newspapers or watch the TV news to be made painfully aware that the intended safety of the family unit is much abused, and there are many court cases to make that painful point. Each and every child, should be at their safest in the family home, and so it follows that every parent has a great responsibility to protect their sons and daughters from harm. I would go further and say this is a God given, divine charge.

I accept that there are many families, that instill good values in their children, both natural and adopted. This is commendable and to be congratulated. However, I am suggesting that the pinnacle of family living is found in a family where the children are not only given good values to pursue, but Godly, moral and ethical ones to adopt as their lifestyle choice too. I believe God smiles on parents who take their responsibilities seriously, and carry out a lifestyle befitting a Christian, and as a result enjoy Heavenly approval.

It is a fact, supported by independent studies, that children thrive much better in a loving, and caring family unit where there is a Mum and Dad. Did we really need any kind of study to tell us that? I don’t think so. To repeat and restate the obvious, I said a Mum and Dad. Also, children who are ‘chosen’ may not have their natural Mother or Father, but I suggest it is much better to have a loving Mum and Dad. The analogy is unmistakeable. It is humanly possible to be a mother or father, but it takes something special to be a Mum, or a Dad. We are all children of a loving God, adopted into His care. No one can look after our lives and loves better than our Lord and Saviour, so who better to emulate?

So, to parents who may be struggling to provide a safe and loving family unit for their family, take heart. Our father God has trouble with us too. We don’t always accept His teachings or discipline easily either, but that does not make it the wrong lifestyle. Let’s protect and promote the safe values of the family unit, and especially the Christian family unit, where a fine Godly example is not only taught, but seen to be lived. The rewards are good in this life, but also eternal.